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Start thinking about all the positive qualities you have Professional

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 Not to mention it's a good conversation starter. If you play the guitar, set out to learn a song and learn it.

The first thing:

Smile. First off, you need to love yourself. Smiling is contagious, and if you're always smiling, and the other person is smiling, it creates an instant bond, and a clear indicator that the date is going well. Smiling tends to affect your mood also, so smiling more just might make you happier. Read this list until you are absolutely sick of reading it. Set goals, preferably small goals, and focus on achieving them.

Take care of yourself. Come up with list of great things, and keep it in your purse, or on the nightstand. Start thinking about all the positive qualities you have.

Appearance. Newspapers are varied enough that there has to be something of interest in there for you.

Soon, you'll have that list memorized, and you won't even need to look at it to know what it says. Make sure your clothes are clean, you are showered and shaved, with brushed hair and teeth at all times. You wouldn't go out on a date this way right?

Anytime you are showered, clean with brushed teeth and good breath your confidence is higher. We can't all be movie star hot, but there are things anyone can do to make themselves hotter.

Be proud of yourself.

When engaged in conversation, become interested in the other person. Use their name frequently also, nothing sounds sweeter to someone than their own name.

Also, subscribe to the newspaper,and read about current events.

As an excersize, take a pen and paper and write down all the positive things about yourself. You don't have to be an acedemic to be able to hold a conversation about a subject. But while you're out you will feel like everyone knows you didn't take a shower, and everyone knows you stink. When you are good at something, anything, you become more confident. Take some time to think about something you're really interested, and learn something about it.

So how do you increase your own confidence? It's very simple actually. This gives you something to talk about at parties and social events. This one is very important. This will help you attract more people than you ever imagined. What are you good at? What do you like to do? No matter what it is, anything from snowboarding to knitting, think about ways you can make yourself better at it. You begin to slowly love yourself more, and become more confident, and it shows. Try doing your hair different, or dressing a little different, and see the response. And when you're confident, you're sexy. Add to it whenever something comes to mind. And you know what else? Your subconcious will have it memorized as well. Come up with as much as you Computerized Glove Knitting Machine can.The Secret Ingredient

Do you know one of those people who "just has it"? You know the type, they can be a guy or a girl who is very average looking, not rich or famous, yet always seems to have the attention of the opposite sex. Every time a negative thought pops in your head, banish it immediately. Which brings me to the next step, conversation!

Conversation Fuel. Are you nice? Are you attractive, smart, or funny? Anything you can think of that anyone has ever complimented you on, write it down. Every day, read it to yourself at least once. Sure, you might feel lazy in the morning and skip the shower, then run to the store really quick. Really listen to what they have to say. Go down to the library or hit the internet and pick up a few things about it when you're bored. Becoming a better conversationalist will build your confidence. Learn to love yourself. Again it doesn't take much to hold a conversation. By telling yourself these positive things every day, you'll notice a difference rather quick. If you don't love yourself, how do you expect others to love you? Change your attitude today, as in right now.








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